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Healing Looks Different When You’ve Been Through Hell
There’s an image I created that came straight out of my mind — a woman on her knees, swords in her back, surrounded by substances and the nightlife… collapsed at the base of a cross while the world behind her keeps laughing, drinking, and moving without noticing a thing. This picture isn’t “art.” It’s honesty. It’s not glamorous. It’s not aesthetic. It’s not the pretty version of healing people post about. It’s the part of the journey nobody wants to talk about. The part wher
nelisa81
Nov 255 min read


Trance Music: The Science and Soul of Getting Lost in Sound
When you press play on a trance track, something happens that goes beyond just listening to music. The rhythm takes hold, the melodies...
nelisa81
Aug 293 min read


They Didn’t Ghost You Because You’re Too Much—They Ghosted You Because They Are Emotionally Immature
Let’s get one thing straight: ghosting says more about them than it ever will about you. One minute he’s blowing up your phone with good...
nelisa81
Aug 263 min read


You Can’t Save People — You Can Only Love Them
One of the hardest lessons in life is realizing that no matter how much we love someone, we cannot save them. We can support, encourage,...
nelisa81
Aug 261 min read


She Played Victim Until Karma Played Her
There’s always that woman—the one who can’t let go of a man she’s already lost ages ago, so she inserts herself into every relationship...
nelisa81
Jul 314 min read


When They Push You to the Edge, Then Call You Crazy
Some people have a talent for chaos—not the obvious kind, but the quiet kind that chips away at your peace, your confidence, and your...
nelisa81
May 213 min read


Trusting Your Intuition: The Moment I Started Listening to Myself
There were so many times I knew. Not because of what someone said or did—but because of what I felt. A quiet knowing in my chest. A...
nelisa81
May 164 min read


The Truth About Healthy Relationships - Recognizing & Letting Go of Breadcrumbing
Let’s Be Real: You’re Not in Love—You’re in Survival Mode What’s worse than someone breadcrumbing you? Pretending like those crumbs are a...
nelisa81
May 122 min read


Narcassists Tactics Unmasked: How To Recognize & Resist Their Manipulation
There was a time when I didn't recognize the emotional warfare I was living through. The silence, the sudden coldness, the way I was made...
nelisa81
May 66 min read


Loving a Ghost: My Experience with An Addict, Manipulation, and the Illusion of Change
I never imagined that love could feel like abandonment, or that loyalty could turn into a prison. But that’s exactly what happened during...
nelisa81
May 16 min read


Understanding the Dynamics of Emotional Manipulation in Relationships
Relationships can be complex, filled with love and support one moment and turning toxic the next. Understanding the dynamics of...
nelisa81
May 13 min read


Navigating Relationships: Understanding Empathy in Love
In the intricate dance of relationships, empathy plays a crucial role in deepening connections and fostering understanding. Understanding...
nelisa81
Apr 142 min read


Healing Heartbreak: A Guide to Self-Love and Growth
Heartbreak is a universal experience that can leave us feeling lost, alone, and overwhelmed. It can be easy to get consumed by feelings...
nelisa81
Apr 142 min read


Embracing Vulnerability: Finding Strength in Self-Exploration
In the journey of self-exploration and personal growth, it is often the moments of vulnerability that lead to the greatest strength. It...
nelisa81
Apr 142 min read
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